Children's Tantrums

Children's tantrums can be challenging situations for parents, but they are also a common and normal aspect of the development of young children. It is important to understand the causes of tantrums in order to respond to them empathetically and effectively. Let's take a closer look at this issue.

Causes of Children's Tantrums:

• Lack of communication: Young children do not yet have a full set of words and communication skills, so a tantrum can be a way to express their needs and emotions.
• Tiredness and hunger: Very often, children start tantrums due to fatigue or hunger when their emotional resources and energy are exhausted.
• Dissatisfaction or frustration: Children may experience tantrums when something does not happen as they expected, or when their requests are not met.
• Emotional reaction: Children have not yet learned to effectively manage their emotions, so a tantrum can be a way to cope with an overflow of feelings.

Strategies for Responding to Children's Tantrums:

• Stay calm: It is important to remain calm and not let your emotions take over. The child feels your tension and reacts to it.
• Support the child: Show the child that you understand their feelings, even if you do not agree with their behavior. Hug them or just be there.
• Try to redirect attention: Offer your child some other activity or game to distract them from the source of their frustration.
• Talk to the child: When the child calms down, talk to them about their feelings. Help them express their emotions in words.
• Learn to feel the prerequisites: Observe the child's behavior to understand what causes their tantrum, and try to prevent it.

Set clear boundaries: Let the child know that some things are not up for discussion, but explain it to them patiently and clearly.